Married Friends and Lovers...

Over the course of raising my children, I learned the importance of letting the children see that it is alright to show affection from a Husband to his wife. When I was growing up, I never seen my parents kiss. When I kissed my soon to be husband good-night, my mother just about died. It was at this time, I thought back over the years of growing up and realized that not once did I see my mother or father kiss each other. Maybe that is why I thought it was so special when I seen a couple that was almost thirty years older that my husband and I was, still kissing and showing they we in love. I truly wondered if it would be possible for my husband and I to still be that much in love when we grew older.

The truth is every husband and wife should be in-love enough to show this love in front of their children and/or others. There is nothing wrong with Married Friends and Lovers---They have a right to that romance and Heaven does hold its blessings on this Holy Unity. A man named Steve Chapman and his wife Annie, wrote and sang that song at one of their Christian Concerts. When they sang that song, everyone could see the love that was felt between the two of them.

With the world, along with the ways of the world, with people of the same sex or even multiple partners, our children are going to be confused. We need to show our children that love can and will flow between a man and a woman. If Christian Parents do not start showing love towards each other and happiness, their children will be come prey for Satan.

When we turn on T.V. and see a man with another man, no longer is it a man with another woman and not married. Things have gone crazy and full of sin. Satan knows how to ruin marriages and our children. It is sex related, most always.

There is nothing wrong with a Husband holding his wifes hand or for that matter giving her a kiss. We have to come to terms that love in the home between a man and a woman, is pure when it is God's Unity. If you would like to hear some of Steve and Annie Chapman's songs, please stop back. I will be sharing some with you. Until that day, Plan a special night for your wife and you. Get her a little teddy nightie and rent a motel room. Just call her up and tell her to be ready to go at what time is good for you. Make sure you take care of the babysitter. Now if it is a woman that is going to surprise her many. She can do it special too. Just do not plan it on a night that you know he works hard and late or he has plans to watch the football game with the guys. One day it might work to interrupt the football game with his men friends, but not at first. Than you buy yourself a teddy and surprise him.

IF you can not afford a hotel or motel, than close the blinds for the night and darkness the home. Tell, the friends to stay away for the next twenty four hours. Turn off the power and use candles, use a battery operated Radio for music or something that plays music. The night will be special if you let you mind go. Who knows, maybe you might just go parking in the corn field, be a little wild. Remembering always, To not be ashamed, heaven holds its blessing to the Holy Unity.