God's plan for a Husband and a Wife

Greetings to All,

After struggling for a while over doing this blog or not doing it, I have finally gave into the Lord. Over the past several years I have fought many battles, but not listening to what the Lord wants is a battle that there is only one winner. The winner is declared. The Lord has won.

Sometimes God speaks to an individual about saying something, doing something or even just to speak up about something. When this happens to me, I sometimes think God is not really asking me to do this because who am I that people will hear what I say.

I will not lie to you, I am not perfect and I have failed in many ways. In some ways I still fail and struggle badly. I wish that I could just one day wake up and my trials and temptations would be gone. Than I would feel others might listen to what the Lord is telling me to share with others.

So I guess what I am saying it this...

I am not perfect and I do not know what I am going to be sharing with you, but I do know that this blog is focused upon a Husband and a Wife. What I share is going to be left up to the Lord.

If your a man reading this, than do not think that your wife is going to hear me say that everything you say is correct and she has to listen to you. Nor should a wife think that I will say that a husband should jump up and help around the house.
No, I am sorry but my focus is based upon what the Lord is showing me and speaking to me about.

Something has happened to the family Unity and the complete family is suffering from it. The question is this, Who is going to start to change and reclaim their home for the Lord? Than again, maybe you should ask what is it going to take to get this change to take place? Does it mean your going to have to give up something?

Chances are you will need to give up something. However, I will not be the one pointing the finger and telling you to give it up. I do not know what you do in your daily life, but if at any time you think that I am pointing a finger at you, than maybe you might ask God what is the deal.

Our children are a gift from God, these children are not a burden from God even if they are not listening to your right now. I can only tell you that Marriage commitment is important and is valuable to you, your partner and God. If your struggling with issues than may I suggest to you that you take a few minutes right now to recommit your life to the Lord. There has been times that I have recommited my life because I just wanted to let God know that I wanted to keep improving my life to lead more people to him. Recommitting your life doesn't have to mean that you are just returning to him, but either way it is special time in a relationship. Kind of like a love letter.